The bond between a mother and child has always been a mystery in this world that can never be solved. The endless love and passion of a mother to do anything for her child, to fight against all the odds of the world without even a second thought in mind, the strength and its source no one can perceive or feel except a mother.

Being a mother is not an easy job. Usually the pregnancy and becoming a mother is an adventure for the women. They are afraid and excited at the same time. They experience worries about the unborn and sometimes they have frustration, anger and fear.

However, after becoming a mother their life is turned upside-down. All of a sudden their personal goals, ambitions and self-worshiping desires transform itself into care, living for someone important to whom she loves unconditionally. It gives women a complete new chapter in life. As said by Sophia Lauren:

“When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts, a mother always have to think twice once for herself and once for her child.”

Mother’s can create a connection with their unborn babies. Here is a tip for pregnant women: to let your unborn babies feel the presence of their mommy, just give soft massage over your belly. This how the human behaviors are introduced to the unborn children. Moreover, this is an effective technique to build a strong bonding with a child. Sometimes when future mothers do that, they feel the baby kicking back showing that it is enjoying the play with mother.

Science of Parenting says that a baby in wombs have feelings and emotions and it experiences every activity a mother does which has an impact on the child. So if a mother is involved in creative activities, a child develops healthy and smart. The emotional connection between a mother and a child is natural. Marilee Hartling says, bonding with unborn is actually the attachment of a mother with the child. This bonding is also responsible for the character development of the unborn. This is the procedure of learning for the baby before cradle stage.

If the bonding between a baby and a mother is healthy then as result the child assumes that world is a safe place for him. This establishes the trust between a child and a mother.

“Mothers and their children are in a category all their own. There’s no bond so strong in the entire world. No love so instantaneous and forgiving”
Said by Gail Tsukiyama.

Although carrying a child for women seems the hardest and scariest experience, all this will result in an unspeakable joy felt by a mother when she holds her baby in her arms for the first time and experiences the heaven’s touch.

Furqan Haider

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